Patience and Trust
Patience is defined as “The capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset.”
It stands to reason that human nature can be summed up by explaining that it is a rushing flood of impatience sprinkled with the dread that comes just before a roller coaster plummets downward. A constant push and pull between impatience and dread is something we all feel!
When asked to write a post about patience, my first course of action was to define it. If you’re the type to appreciate it, according to Oxford languages, Patience is defined as “The capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset.”, however, diving further into the definition, it was brought to my attention by the lovely Ms. June (my 8th grade teacher) that we need to pose the question of why. Why do we accept or tolerate these things?
At the core of it, disregarding general, case by case aspects, patience is an attribute, a virtue, that requires trust.
Whether you are waiting for your food to arrive through the kitchen doors of your favorite restaurant, waiting for a call from the doctor with test results, or are waiting for an answer to prayer, you can only trust that what you are waiting for will appear. Of course, you always are hopeful that the dinner, test results, or answer to prayer will be good, as well! Though it is not a definition of patience, I’ve found in my life that the need for trust within it is rarely escaped!
With that in mind, when I’ve focused on maintaining the virtue of patience, I tend to ask myself who I’m trusting in! As I stress on the car ride home from school after taking a test, patiently waiting for the results, I could trust that my own efforts were sufficient and that my studying capacity is where my grade’s potential ends, or, as I’ve actively been trying to remind myself to do more often, I could trust that the Lord has planned on this grade long before I knew I would receive it, and He is working everything into His will for me because, to quote Deuteronomy 31:6, “He hasn’t left you nor has He forsaken you!”
Of course this doesn’t disregard the fact that God has given you those incredible abilities to use toward his plan for you! It does, however, mean that regardless of my situation in life, rather than anxiously anticipate the results of my own abilities, I’ve come to realize, I’d prefer to stand firm in the promise that the Lord is setting into place blessing after blessing for me every second of every day! Stress and anxiety, though not as inevitable as I find trust to be within patience, are given too loud of a platform in my mind. It is my way, I assume, of resisting the trust I need to have in something greater than me, rather than embracing it and in turn, handing it on to the Lord!
This glance up to our Creator in moments of patience has improved my tranquility and perspective immensely. As I’ve been writing this post throughout the month of April, I find myself taking every situation that requires patience to reflect on who exactly I’m trusting in this time period, and to, if it’s not already been done, hand it over to God and I encourage all of you to do the same!
Scripture verses for a mini devotional to dive deeper into this topic: Galatians 6: 7-9, Psalms 24:11, and Jeremiah 29:11
Shabbat Shalom 💜
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By: Aliza
April 30, 2021



