Mentorship - By Alyssia
~ Proverbs 27: 17 ~
As iron sharpens iron,
so a person sharpens the countenance of his friend.
A mentor is defined as someone who is willing to use their time and wisdom to help guide the development of another person. Think about it! This means someone out there is willing to sacrifice their time to help you grow. Or maybe you have a desire to invest in someone else’s life through mentoring.
In Proverbs 27:17, God demonstrates the mutual benefit of two people working together to become stronger through the idea of sharpening iron. When you rub the two blades of iron together, both of the edges sharpen, making not just one, but both pieces more efficient. The same idea can be applied to mentoring.
When you’re mentoring, you are pouring into someone’s life, helping them to grow and become stronger. You could be helping them strengthen their relationship with God, inspiring them to create goals and surpass them, or motivating them to live every day to the fullest. What you may not know is how much the mentor is also gaining from this mentorship. They are taking a step of faith, letting God work though them to reach out and really pour into someone else’s life.
Within this past year, I have been extremely blessed with the opportunity to not only be mentored by someone, but also to be a mentor to someone else. This year, the YMJA has started a Mentorship Program for college freshmen. Through this program I was placed with my awesome mentor.
Having a mentor has impacted me more than I ever thought possible. My mentor has encouraged me to try new things and kept me accountable in my walk with God, but most importantly she has always been there to listen to me and give me advice. Thanks to my mentor, I feel stronger and have been able to grow as a person while going through my freshman year of college. She has been someone to turn to if I had questions or needed prayer. The effects from this mentorship will not just be growth or motivation I get in the moment. It will be something that impacts me for the rest of my life.
After being mentored for a few months, I felt like God called me to become a mentor and pour into someone else’s life. After praying about it, I soon knew who I was supposed to help mentor. Now with my wonderful mentee, I have the opportunity to answer her questions and be there to support her. While being a mentor, I have been asked questions I found challenging to answer. In these situations, I have called upon God to help me. A couple of times, God has actually provided me with an answer and has spoken through me! Though this was great, there were many other times when I still had no answer, but I learned that it’s okay. Not having the answer helped fuel my hunger to learn more, overall allowing me to grow and get closer to God.
Having someone to keep you accountable plays a significant role in your growth! The idea of knowing that someone is there guiding you and keeping you on the right path is life changing. I pray that everyone has a chance to be impacted through mentoring like I was. Now, I encourage you, if you have the calling to mentor someone then go for it! Or if you don’t feel prepared to mentor someone under you, then find someone you look up to spiritually and try asking them to get some coffee or to just hang out and see what happens, this could be the start to an amazing mentorship!



