College Freshman Tips for Your First Semester - By Tronia Tante
Going to college is a big transition. You go from seeing your family every single day, to about every other week or every once in a while. While living at college you gain a lot more freedom than you might have asked for. At first it’s great because there’s no parents and you’re literally on your own, doing your own thing. But then you realize that you are literally on your own.
Your first semester is what I would like to call your free trial, because everything is completely new and you have to train yourself to adapt to the college life. One thing I want to stress is that in my experience high school really did not prepare me for college. If you are like me you can relate to this: In high school, basically you had it pretty easy, nothing was really all that challenging, you could still easily have a social life, and do what you want to do without worrying about your grades going into a crisis. But in college? Oh no, that’s a whole different story, you are basically thrown into the deep end of a pool and you have to teach yourself how to swim. You have to actually learn how to be an adult. And one of the biggest characteristics of being an adult is managing your time, which is one of the hardest skills to learn, especially when you’re taking all these classes that are most likely harder than you are used to. College asks for a lot of your time and energy if you really want good grades, and it can get really stressful. It’s really all about sitting down and reflecting with yourself on how you function and what you can do to set yourself up for success.
Now, we are human, we are not perfect. But when you bring God with you to college, He can and will make a way for you to be successful. That’s the number one key. God doesn’t want to see you fail, He only wants to see you succeed. As long as you learn to be consistent it’ll work out, because consistency is key. Don’t slack, because once you start slacking, things pile up, and then they become very overwhelming, and you find yourself always rushing, and doing things last minute. One thing I learned in my first semester is to be intentional, proactive, and to have a positive mindset ALL THE TIME. Once you give a little bit of room to negativity, it will eventually unpack all of its bags and move into your life, and it won’t be pretty.
Also, have confidence in yourself that you can do it, because you can. You are more than a conqueror through Yeshua who loves us (Romans 8:37). Always give yourself a pep talk, and speak positive things into existence, like “I will pass this test, I will get this homework done, I will be successful.” Also, reach out to people for help, prayer, or someone you can trust to talk to, like a mentor. Life is a learning experience, and we grow every day. Don’t let life knock you down, always remember that God is on your side.



