Living Out Love

Written by Sarah Adler


Romans 12

An extremely powerful chapter that clearly instructs us how to live by loving others, using the gifts G-d has given us and being an example by letting others see G-d’s light and goodness through us.


1 And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to G-d because of all He has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice–the kind He will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship Him.

Whoa! Do you hear this? Our bodies are a sacrificial offering to G-d! They are given to Him as a form of worship. How are we going to present ourselves to the one true and holy G-d of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob? Should our bodies be something that we take care of and keep pure and clean to be able to present to our L-rd? Or is it okay to give something less than perfect to G-d? He’s given us everything we could ever imagine out of love, so shouldn’t we do our best to give Him something He can declare is worthy and acceptable?

See also: 1 Corinthians 6:19-20

2 Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may discern what is the will of G-d—what is good and acceptable and perfect.

When we hear or think about this verse, the first thing that usually comes to mind is how we present ourselves to others. But, the verse says, “ the renewing of your mind, ” so it’s not only about conforming the way we act with other people, but also our mindset. Do you need to change the way you think? Pretty much everybody should say yes to that; we shouldn’t have pride, selfishness, jealousy, or stubbornness. There are so many other things that we need to train our minds not to think like so that we can try to get as close as possible to have a mindset and attitude of Messiah. This is something that we should definitely be praying and asking G-d to help us with; He loves to see His children coming to Him for help!

Ezekiel 11:11-12, Matthew 16:26

3 Because of the grace (privilege and authority) G-d has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith G-d has given you.

This ties in with the last verse. We really should not have a proud or arrogant spirit. Now, I know that this something easier said than done; I have really struggled with this in the past (even now it’s something that I need to keep myself in check about). But when you really think about it, what can we truly be proud about that we accomplished completely on our own? Nothing. Everything we have done or achieved has been given to us by G-d to be a part of His perfect plan. We are all equals in G-d’s eyes, so why should we think differently?

2 Corinthians 10:17

4 Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, 5so it is with the body of Messiah. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other.

These verses are so powerful! Okay, I know what you might be thinking: “this is common knowledge!” or “I’ve heard this before!” But have you ever really thought about what that means? This means we all have to work together and build each other up! You’ve most likely heard the phrase, “A team is only as good as its weakest player.” Well, it’s the same in out ‘team’ that makes up the body of Messiah! If you see another believe really falling behind and struggling with something, go talk to them and share the burden; encourage them with the word of G-d and work together so that you can learn from each other and do the best job possible for G-d.



1 Thessalonians 5:11/5:14, Hebrews 3:13/10:25

(Sorry! I had to add this in; it just fit in perfectly! Mulan can always be related J )

6 In His grace, G-d has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if G-d has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as G-d has given you. 7If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. 8If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If G-d has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly.

G-d has so graciously given us these wonderful gifts! Now, when parents (or really anybody) give you a present, do they give the same thing to everyone else? Not usually, if they know you really well, they will most likely shape the gift to fit you. And if other people do it, surely G-d will do so much more for us. From the very beginning of time, G-d knew exactly what gifts you would have and how you would use them, how amazing is that? For that reason, we should never be afraid to use our gifts; G-d has given them to us for a purpose. Just like the gifts others give us are meant to be used, we are encouraged to use these spiritual gifts to the fullest! We should also cultivate our gifts and ask G-d to show us how to use them to help reach out to others.


Deuteronomy 16:16-17, 1 Peter 4:10

9 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tight to what is good. 10Love each other with genuine affection (brotherly love), and take delight in honoring each other.

G-d calls us all to be lovers. Now, as I’m sure you know, this isn’t like falling in love with someone; it’s more of an act than a feeling. If people went around and just thought, “I love this person,” how will that other person receive that love if there is no action along with the thought? We can’t read other people’s minds, so we have to love others through actions and words. Share the word of G-d—this is HUGE , the best way we can love others is to show them G-d’s love)—or lend a helping hand. Build each other up. Hate what G-d hates and love what He loves. “How do I know what G-d loves and hates?” The best way to know what those things are is to read and know His word; He made it clear and not confusing so that it is easy to understand. * Remember: hate the sin, not the sinner! *

Leviticus 19:18, Matthew 22:37-50, Romans 13:8-10

11 Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the L-rd enthusiastically.

This verse needs to be a daily reminder to some of us. There are so many times that I get so lazy—or even distracted—and I end up putting off working on the things that I’m supposed to do (sound familiar?). But G-d clearly states that that is not something we should be doing. Even going to school or work is an opportunity to be a light and show G-d’s love to others; so we shouldn’t even be lazy when it comes to those things. As difficult as it seems, this verse even goes so far as to say do it enthusiastically. Everything we do should be for the L-rd, and we should do that gladly and enthusiastically; there is not room for laziness. Especially now that we are getting closer to the return of Messiah. Really, we never want to be lazy because Yeshua will come like a thief in the night, so we need to be ready for Him and give Him the welcome He deserves. Do we want to sleep through His return (kind of like the disciples in Matthew 26)? Or say, “Sorry G-d, I just didn’t feel like doing your works”? That’s a big no. Now, we aren’t perfect, so sometimes we might fall into the temptation of being lazy. The best thing to do is to pray for G-d to help us resist the temptation of laziness and weakness of spirit (His word tells us He will never give us more than we can handle).

Proverbs 26:13-16/19:15, Matthew 26:40-41

12 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, and faithful in prayer.

We have so much to hope for! For the return of Yeshua, for living in eternity with G-d, for the opportunity to reach out to the millions of lost souls, for the enemy to be defeated, and for leaving behind all evil to be surrounded by goodness in heaven. And not only should we hope, we should rejoice about it! Jump for joy with your hope and knowledge of what is to come! But, while we joyfully hope and wait, we will face many trials. This is where prayer and patience come in. If we don’t remember to have hope, patience and prayer, our short time in trials will be so much harder. They work together and we cannot let go of them.

Psalm 25:5/28:7, Proverbs 23:17-18, Jeremiah 29:11-13, James 1:12-15, 1 Peter 1:5-9

13 When G-d’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.

This is another way to show your love to others (notice a pattern?). Like the Good Samaritan, when we see others in need, we should reach out and lend a hand to help in whatever way we can. We should always be grateful that G-d has chosen us to know Him and have eternal life. With this knowledge, it shouldn’t be a chore to help others in need that don’t have as much as we do. It could be a way to lead them to the greatest gift—Yeshua. We should be ready to help in whatever way needed (spiritually, physically, or even mentally). G-d has already given us so much, so it is our duty to love others and help when needed.

Deuteronomy 15:11, Proverbs 14:21/14:31, Matthew 6:1-4

14 Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that G-d will bless them.

Yet another verse that ties into loving others (seems important). Even the people who curse you—who may even hate you—need your love. Again, even though it might be hard, “ Don’t just pretend to love [them]. Really love them. ” More times than not, these people are really just lost, confused and hurting. You can love them by praying for that G-d blesses them with being able to knowing Him so that they might be saved. Just shower them in love (keep this in mind; comes again in a few verses J).

Luke 6:27-36

15 Be happy with those who are happy and weep with those who weep. 16Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all! 17Never pay back evil with more evil. Do such things in a way that everyone can see you are honorable. 18Do all you can to live in peace with everyone.

Like in verse 3, don’t be proud and arrogant; G-d can teach us lessons through anything, so be content wherever G-d puts you (with whoever and whatever). G-d really just wants us to live in unity with one another and not let the petty things of this world distract us from eternal life with Him. A way to be a role model to others who might need the guidance is to show G-d’s light and be honorable. If you can help it, don’t let anyone be able to say something bad about you (things that are true—sometimes people may be cruel and spread lies, but you can’t help that and the only thing you can do is pray for them and the situation). Even though G-d is the only judge, we can pull people in if we always act in goodness, mercy and kindness. Act in integrity and be honorable so that people can see G-d’s light in you, which can lead them to Him.

Psalm 48:11, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4, 1 Peter 3:8-12

19 Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of G-d. For the Scriptures say, “I will take revenge; I will pay them back,” says the L-rd (Deuteronomy 32:35). 20Instead, “If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. In doing this you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads” (Proverbs 25:21-22). 21Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.

We have a holy and just G-d. He will give to everyone what he or she deserves. It is not our place to give them our own form or thoughts of justice. If we act out in revenge, then we are no better than them and there will be consequences. We can also show G-d’s love by “ [blessing] those who persecute [us] ”. When people wrong you, they expect a reaction and retaliation, so it can melt or change their hearts if they receive love and kindness instead of anger and bitterness.

Leviticus 19:18, Jeremiah 25:14, 1 Peter 3:13-14, Revelation 2:23

I hope this touches your heart and that you go forth loving others and seeking help from G-d when you need it!

Love, Sarah




13 Oct, 2022
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04 Oct, 2022
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09 Aug, 2022
Yesterday we lost a friend who means so much to so many in the YMJA. We are grieving losing Mark Dayan on earth but rejoicing that he is with the Lord. Mark was fondly known by many as "Uncle Mark". He served the Messianic community at large and in Philadelphia with his whole heart. In the YMJA he led the singles program for decades! There have been so many beautiful words posted about him within the last 24 hours, here are some of them: "He taught me how to lead worship by worshipping with joy and sincerity. One of my favorite people to sing with, worship with and travel with. He diffused the tension in any room. He was the one that everyone everywhere gravitated toward and remembered.”- Marc  "Uncle Mark never approached life looking for ways to climb to the top of the social ladder. Instead, he focused on getting as low as he could, so that he could best serve the least & anyone in need of love, or just a hug & a good belly laugh. Just like his Messiah, he lived not be served, but instead he lived to serve.”- Nate "He was impossible to miss as not only was he more than likely the loudest laugh or the loudest singer in the room but also he brought such an infectious joy and intentionality to everyone. He made a point to reach out to everyone, especially those who others deemed different or difficult. He made a point to lift others up even when it made him seem less.”- Melissa "Uncle Mark had perfected the art of taking joy in other's successes. When you had a good report, Uncle Mark would be so excited, just as if whatever blessing you had received had actually come to him. Uncle Mark lived to give, lived to laugh, lived for joy and praise.”-Nyssa "He always gave the best hugs, told the best stories, and above all encouraged everyone around him to joyfully follow G-d.”- Danielah Today we encourage you to think of how you can remember Mark Dayan’s legacy and walk in his footsteps. We encourage you to seek ways to serve your community, notice who needs a friend and meet them where they are, and above all find your strength in the Lord. We will miss you Mark, all your big hugs and encouragement. We will carry on your faithful legacy.
19 Oct, 2021
Shalom everyone, I wanted to share what the Lord has been reminding me lately. I am young, serving the Lord and recently I have been encouraged by Isaiah 40:30-31. This passage is honest and says “Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall, but they who wait for Adonai will renew their strength. They will soar up with wings as eagles. They will run, and not grow weary. They will walk, and not be faint.” It is essentially saying that even though we are young and are “supposed” to have this never-ending tank of energy, we still can get overwhelmed. We are humans living in 2021, it can get very overwhelming! This verse has encouraged me to not let myself be or stay burdened. Rather be open to speak and say that sometimes I need to rest in the Lord, that it’s not about how much I can do, but rather it’s about how much God can do. And it’s true, there are things that only God can do. It goes to show that even youths grow weak and weary…. but those who hope in the Lord will find new strength! It’s about being encouraged to lift each other up to show that God’s Chesed (grace/compassion) is meant for everyone; that strength will rise to those who wait upon the Lord, and that He will mount us up on wings like eagles. Yes, it’s okay to take the time to stop. It’s okay to take the time to let go. And it is always for the best to simply follow God’s lead on what is yours to do and what is not in each season. I encourage you to pray and ask God about when and how to serve and rest while being constantly renewed in His strength. #mycurrentfavoritescripture By: Jacob R. October 19, 2021
13 Oct, 2021
Hey YMJA! I hope you are all enjoying this lovely season of fall, and reflecting on all the Lord taught us during our recent journey through the Fall Feasts. What a time we are living in! It feels like there is transition everywhere. For me personally, I just began a new job--one that has been an amazing experience, and I know I'm where the Lord wants me. On the other hand, I've had some tough moments in this process of beginning a new season. I know many YMJAers are at a similar time in life-- a time of newness and transition. The Lord wants to grow our faith and trust in Him during these times, and to deepen our relationship with Him. My current favorite scripture, one that I have really been holding on to in recent days, is Galatians 6:9--"So let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we don’t give up." With everything going on in the world today, it can be so easy to get discouraged--especially if what we are doing is not showing immediate results. Newness can be hard, whether it be a new job, a new school, a new house, or just a time of waiting on the Lord for next steps. Don't give up. Keep doing good. Keep serving, loving, trusting. Keep waiting for Him. He will bring a beautiful harvest of faith, hope, and blessing in your life as you persevere in the season He has brought you to. He is with you always--don't lose heart. Keep going. #mycurrentfavoritescripture By: Michaela, YMJA Prayer Team Member October 12, 2021
28 Sep, 2021
If you have been at the MJAA registration desk for a regional conference or the annual Messiah Conference, you were likely greeted by Linda’s warm smile and genuine gift of hospitality. She ran housing and registration and spoke to many of your youth leaders and parents to make sure everything was in order for all of us to have the best experience possible. While she worked for the MJAA, she simultaneously worked as the YMJA administrative assistant from 2012-2019. She played an instrumental role behind the scenes to make the YMJA what it is today. You might not know that in the early days Linda and her husband Steve created and ran the teen program at Messiah Conference. This was many decades ago, now the program is run by the YMJA as of 1988. Our current YMJA Executive Director, Rabbi Kevin, was a teenager in their program! As an educator, she founded two Messianic schools, Chalutzim and Cornerstone, where some of our YMJA members attended school including her daughter and our beloved VP, Melissa. There is so much more that could be said about her accomplishments, but this is just a snapshot of her vibrant life. Those who met her were struck by her effortless excellence. She was organized, efficient, and made hard tasks and problem-solving look simple. More importantly, she had an extraordinary ability to connect with people and made people feel loved and seen. Many have said that her encouragement and affirmations empowered them to be who they are today. Throughout good times and very challenging times, she clung to the L-rd and her love was an overflow of her love for Yeshua. She always said, "There’s enough time in each day to do the Lord’s will for that day.” We have so much to learn from the way Linda lived her life. As we grieve, please remember to keep Melissa and the entire Brown family in your prayers as they walk through this very difficult time. Linda Brown's legacy is a blessing and she will always be remembered. Written
28 Sep, 2021
A beautiful tradition on Simchat Torah is to read the last verse of Deuteronomy and the first verse of Genesis. There is celebration and joy in the Word of G-d. We are celebrating a beautiful in between moment. Honoring the end of a chapter and a beginning of a new as a community. Maybe your Sukkot was not as joyful as you had hoped. Maybe your Yom Kippur fast was not as meaningful as you had anticipated. Maybe your Rosh Hashanah was not as sweet as it has been in the past. All of that is okay, the Word of G-d will always be relevant and this holiday of Simchat Torah is a tangible reminder that no matter what season we are in, there is joy in focusing on the Word of G-d. His Word isn’t changing even if other areas of our life feel shaky. Simchat means joy; joy isn’t circumstantial. The Torah scrolls that are held in synagogues all over the world are in the process of being rolled back to the beginning. There is a beautiful sense of unity in Jewish life, there is a joy that is hard to explain. If you were unable to go to a Simchat Torah service, you can take some time to read the end and the beginning of the Torah and ask G-d to be with you in this season of life. September 28, 2021 
28 Sep, 2021
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28 Sep, 2021
T he month of Elul is a time to prepare our hearts for the High Holidays. Shabbats during the month of Elul are so beautiful. During this month it’s customary to reflect on the past year, examine our hearts, ask for forgiveness from those we have wronged, read Psalm 27 and so much more. On this Shabbat we encourage you to take sometime to reflect. Let’s wholeheartedly run after the Lord, bring our worries to Him and prepare our hearts for whatever He has for us. Shabbat Shalom, YMJA! #ymjashabbatshalom August 20, 2021 
28 Sep, 2021
Originally I was quite on the fence about registering for the virtual Messiah Conference because online school had tired me out immensely… The prospect of being in front of a screen and Zooming, again, did not thrill me at all. However, after a bit of self reflection I decided to push my hesitation aside and just do it - with friends or without my friends registering, and despite the screen time I knew I would be facing. So I did, and as usual, YMJA did not disappoint. Despite the fact that I couldn’t make it to the last day, it was absolutely wonderful - close and intimate with countless opportunities to bond on a deeper level than usual. The games, the workshops, the messages, and the careful planning all culminated into one beautiful, very fun weekend that seemed to fly by. There were also new perks and online spaces we used that gave it a very fresh feel. I was very surprised that I was enjoying it so so much. Once again, the takeaway for me is this: no matter what inhibitions there may be - whether it’s something as small as what I had, or bigger things like doubt, fear, discouragement - just DO it! Jump into opportunities God has for you. If you go into opportunities like this with an open mind that’s ready to receive blessings and experience unity, then that’s what you’ll get (and sooo much more too). God will meet you in the midst of it, speak to you, and personalize every event for you - whether it’s through a much needed message, a workshop, a small group discussion, or something different altogether. You will always walk out with a renewed mind and a stronger sense of community, which is more important now than ever before. “And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good deeds. And do not neglect our own meetings, as is the habit of some, but encourage one another—and all the more so as you see the Day approaching ."  Hebrews 10:24-25 I hope you all enjoyed the conference as much as I did! By: Adel July, 16, 2021
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